Living in a state of constant self-denial means always working towards fixing one’s self. And that is the accepted standard. Our economy and society, that includes government schools and industry, thrives on each individual trying to make themselves fit a standard which is unreachable because the only standard is to always be better. Not good, but better which is a comparison. In truth, one cannot actually change until they accept where they are and what they are. When one looks at themselves outside the lenses we are given and accept, we are already whole. We have the full range of happiness we could ever want but are not familiar with using it. However it is easily learned by accepting that we can and are fine in not knowing currently. We are exactly where we should be, nothing is wrong except the idea that something is always wrong. The chaos of the world is a fake idea that Americans have been sold to keep them from empowering themselves and give power to those who dubbed themselves,” in charge”. The world belongs to each and every one of us and we are exactly where and who we need to be. If changed is desired, it is readily available but cannot be truly achieved before we realize who we truly are. We cannot grow until we realize and accept what we are. That is completing this current state of being; accepting and loving it.