It is not bad to judge a person for being a stupid ignorant close-minded fuck face. Sometimes people are but that doesn’t mean that is all they are. If unaccepted then one cannot change and if hurt but unaddressed then one cannot heal. To allow someone to hurt or insult for sake of their own insecurity or ignorance and not judge them so creates an imbalance in a relationship and a wound to the soul. It is an untruth to the self, a sin against one’s self in the form of a principle being overridden by action for a casual comfort. It is ok to acknowledge that your boss, mother, love, friend, teacher, other-half is being an absolute imbecile without any gauge of what is really going on. Thats OK… as long as that is an observation rather than a judgment. Its bad if we don’t think it outloud in our inner monologue but still allow it to have an emotional effect. That is a root of much evil emanating from people in our world. Assholes are people and people are wonderful, the day changes so do people.