People can be a burden. They can be scary and might judge you. What if the one you call on the phone for your favorite job just loathes you and then she tells the boss and treats you like crap? Then the other workers at space piracy candy corp all treat you like a dunce and you get fired and laughed at? People at the job you already work at can hurt you and restrict you. People can intimidate you so you can’t get to your desired goals.
But you know what? People are really simple.
If you smile, adjust the way you hold yourself, think who you want to be before you react emotionally, and work towards positive which means identifying and navigating around shitty things, people will absolutely love you. Posture, smiles, accept reality and pragmatism are all one needs. Every other trick leads towards these simplifications.
Its often a good exercise to imagine the whole world as robots. Pretend you are the only one alive. This makes all the anxiety disappear because robots are predictable and uniform. Now your goals and your emotional state are in your own hands. Don’t do this to people often or tell them so, that is ridiculously rude but it is incredibly beneficial to one’s own growth.
Nobody is really in your way, they just want their way. If you have developed a persona which attracts attacking and is highly reactive to negativity, more will show up but that is quite easily fixed. Make a list of what you need to do and stick to it. Treat people with respect and remember above all else, you like you and you are good. What you give yourself is what the world will give you as well.
We create new issues with imagined people and problems but we can create new options with imagined people and chances all the same with the same level of reality mixed into that nonsense concoction we drench ourselves in. People want to love
