No action is a person but our actions do define a person. Without knowing the whole picture the whole person cannot be defined and thusly we are freed from one bad action as the possibility to make another exists.
Its normal to not want to lose things. Nobody wants to get dumped, robbed, crash their car, arrested, fail a test or get fired or any of the many other small loses or bigger ones. Its unfair! Your insides scream against it… but that’s not the smartest thing. If something dissapears from your life, you might not have been paying attention or maybe it was stolen unfairly but regardless the reason, life goes on and you are still there. So each lack that appears has the same you there afterwards.
I say, that world makes sense and no great pain lives without great story. We can take the story head on and do something great next, whether to battle against or to take in stride. But each loss is another moment of life we are gifted. Every experience has its worth and pain is a very strong emotion. I have been attacked recently for overgeneralizing, not being organic in my speech. So with this, I can be offended. And I absolutely am, but its a lesson and move to the next scene. I can react in anger and reject this person from my life or I can examine the possibility of my speech being flawed in such ways. Or I can do both. Still yet, I received this and in understanding that money, social status, affection, and so many other things fall short the greatness of a life story, I know myself a richer man from the night before being a new one than those before.
You really never lose and even if you admit defeat, the next step still has you with a greater arm-span and mindset to learn and get more than the moment before.
