Oft we complain and rant about people because we are angry and irate about them or their actions. This is called bitching and it gets done… close to nothing. It predicates a situation where one is bothered but has not confronted the issue or issuer. It demonstrates fear and a lack of being able to express one’s ideas completely and in an understood fashion. To be productive or good to yourself is to confront the issue at hand. Many times this is impossible but still bitching is putting time, energy into it and creating more evil, more poor and restricting emotion to that which we hate.
So don’t bitch. Realize everytime you complain you are citing an example of your own inability to win a battle. A fight which was you properly voicing your dislike or disagreement and being understood. When you bitch, know that you are adding anger to the world and your own pot. You are creating a perception of the world with more shit in it. Create more emotional understanding, more logical and connective ways to communicate. That is the best way out of bitching.
