There are a million different outcomes to every god damn day. Presuming otherwise is a bias and not realistic. Patterns exist because those which behave repeat their behavior. An unhealthy outlook and a common outlook is a dramatic one which sees only the bad or idolizes and thinks of rewards for only the good. Insecurity is effectively a person only staring at the negative outcomes instead of considering the bad. Seeing only the good is delusional and blinding, often much more immediately dangerous but possibly not as so in the long run. Each extreme is unrealistic because of its identity though aiming for one can be beneficial even in failure as long as one does not view it as failure however if considered only the extremes then any point other is highly probable to be considered failure. Each real point is a real point so treat them as such instead of pretending away a life at hand.
Dancing with a specific outcomes a single acceptable outcomes demeans the intimacy of life as it accepts only that which is expected instead of embracing the lush universe we continue to breath in. Embrace the possibilities by thinking them through, seeing them each as siblings. There is no best story and being is not a competition. Being real is a bigger gift than an imagined greatness or terribleness.
