There is this concept that runs social anxiety of who’s the highest judgement. Confidence is a founded believe and credibility of an action or idea. To assume is to no be confident but cocky and to pretend without confidence is lying. People often look for confidence outside themselves because they have, we have, a doubt in ourselves. This doubt can be realistic or it can be simply a feeling we give too much credence. Emotions exist for good reasons, to inform us of our mistakes and successes. Unfortunately they are easily misread and ill-programmed. Doubt can be a highly fluctuating emotion so it may seem real when one is just afraid of the past repeating and not aware of the current moment.
The most commonplace I personally find this situation is where someone is more concerned with the feelings of others than their own. That on its own isn’t deviant or wrong but when it become pervasive and more important than
You’re never on trial until you play the defendant. The role you take is defined by the behavior you exhibit. So don’t do those things you don’t wish to become. If you act like everyone is your friend then you will treated like so, after a few good scenes and solid character development is found. The same goes for a victim role. The next lines and steps are always in one’s control…
Your outlook is to be refined and grow. Eventually it will be the tip top and arguably it always is in this perfect and totally aware as it is this moment we all wish to exist in. Do not make it seem better in the sense that none can outdo it or that others have no worth but allow it respect in that it is important.
Who has the ultimate say? If it is always someone else, then you have made a slave of yourself. Even in accepting another person’s dogma, if you have the mindset believing your say cannot be absolute, that elsewhere somebody surely has it better and you give that thought life and credence then you shall never hold a solid thought. You will always be wondering and unsure on some reliable last rip cord, waiting for that absent father figure or abusive husband to come and save you. Not giving yourself the responsibility and value of having the ability of the ultimate say is creating a lack in yourself and seeking others to fill it.
Until one lets go of the insults from another of their less, they will not be able to proceed to their own victory. It is carrying ambiguous loathing and restrictions on ones’ self instead of attending to the real problem those insults intend upon of dealing with real issues at hand. Do not hold onto old insults of the past. Move on to compliments of the future and enjoy the chaos at hand.
Worshipping mystery is a horrible investment of one’s faith. It is an escapism of a fruitless relentlessness. To be conscious is to be the most important perspective. Other’s can know or have more than one’s own awareness but to constantly assume there is better, higher awareness is dismissive to one’s own existence and creating a deprecating perception rule of existence, an evil imaginary friend that always cuts you short of greatness. It’s arbitrary, fickle, and horrible. Do not allow the wonders to rule your world, they’re fruition is in reality and knowingness so they can only rule when backed by fallacy.
A large reason it is incredibly important to no care so much what others think of you is that its normal to think about yourself. So everyone is generally thinking about themselves and rarely others. Leaving very small time allocated to judge others. Social interaction is quite fucking simple and people aren’t out to get you.
