Non-verbal communication a mountain to mole hills in communications. The way a person holds themselves, how they speak with tone and pitch and speed, where their gaze is when they speak and listen to the micro-expressions in one’s face. The context of a person is the speaking of ideas put to words but the speaking of feelings that matter are in non-verbals. Just the same as a message delivered in a letter versus a note coming from a stripper in a short-bus would be received much differently, the delivery and values displayed make more of an impression than what was said quite often. This is why in businesses people must dress a certain uniform, deathly boring and audaciously drought of personality. Because that is the message delivery system they take and want. Everyone has their version of reality stare out of themselves in their non-verbal. In an individual’s reality there is a role for other people or an “othered” role where a person is faceless and generalized. To see greatness in a person in your world will show when you look at a person. The phrase “beaming” comes to mind.
Your vision of the world is reflected in your eyes, the flagship to a new world IF the will is set to sail. It can also be the void staring out of your shiny head diamonds if that’s what the mind behind them stares and believes in most oft. Regardless who you are or what you feel to be right, it will be evident in your microexpressions and facial expressions. People recognize and respond to that.
A person is easily changed in their social behavior because people want social recognition and personal validation. People want the highest thing they can get, so show them a world in your eyes where they are brilliant and magnificent, that you believe in so much so that their doubt is pitiful in comparison and you will inspire a new member for your flagship. It is not about magick words or clever phrases but believing in a world filled with philosopher kings and allowing that world to keep you continuously inspired and uplifted. Then allowing others to see your enthusiasm. Words can be argued and slip quick into the loss of many a glorious victors fallen trying to fix that which was never broken but is looped around nonsensical pain and despair.
The trick is creating the version of utopia that you want to the world to become while not having it drained out in the inspiration campaign. You can start singly, focusing on one person at a time and letting each one you see be the greatest thing you could imagine them to be. That is a fairly surefire way to not get deterred by big bad pictures given out by TV, the media, the loud haters or shitty days that will come. Imagining an all over perfect world is not time functional; it could become amazing or it could be amazing and we can’t see it now but there are moments of full proof bullshit. Most judgements are subjective and also self-fulfilling prophecies. Creating a desired judgement and highest faith of people to be great in the world you would love to exist in, as a back up plan does wonders to a world.
