While I strongly agree with your observations, the judgments and reactions you grow seem a tad… insane and completely imbalanced. We live in a society best defined by panic and insecurity. We buy way too much crap that we don’t need and have more wars going on than we’re aware of; seriously, count the countries we’re stationed and militarily active in. This culture relates and pressures an individual mind to exhibit the same circumstances. Finding ones’ self clear and moving forward with a full centricity of emotions and passion requires addressing issues and problems pulling at all parts of a person. Sometimes the issues can be addressed with,” Ill finish this in a week” adequately but they must be addressed and not ignored. Too easy is it to fall into running away as something far and away seems more appealing due to it NOT being the problematic pain in one’s side. Mistaking a real drive from an escape is a common issue for people in our culture.
Do not doubt yourself to figure yourself. Look for the ideal solution without involving yourself. Honesty with where you are at is vital to many growth situations however here it may very well be ego-centric decoration that derails the real train. Creating an idea to run towards is a must for greatness to show up, not running from a painful idea.
A day can be kept going with incentives and excitements in front of a person. It is different to get past a problem to figuring out a problem and addicts are characterized by being great at ignoring real issues for their desires. To fully engage in a new situation one must be fully free. This means finishing lingering issues and letting go of them so complete grasp and expansion of one’s intellect can occur. Address the possibility that you haven’t fully completely and how you would do IF you had.
Wondering and worry are powerful emotions. To know surely that you are completely engaged is a possible impossibility when one has imagined themselves to be so super due to their expectations that no reality can let them admit they’re actually involved. The step by step mechanism of improvement here is to remember natural progressions happens. First, you suck. Then you are ok, then good and then maybe great and if you can catch every piece of what’s going on so that you are fully involved and aware of what could be around the corner with know-how to reinforce and keep valiant every step along the way, perfection becomes a possibility. Judging one’s self without this process is fucking stupid. And fucking commonplace. So often do millenials raised on the follow your dream ideal get lost in big ideas that they miss the ground under their feet. Yeah, clouds are quite pretty but so is that train about to hi—. Assuming things are below us then doing then poorly is too common ground. Give a shit or stop doing it. As much as many things are tiny, they are leading to somewhere you want to be or they aren’t. Small steps in the between are extremely important to create a sound flow towards goals and alternative many things are a waste of good time. Get determined, calculated it out, look at your emotional production and atmosphere created, remember your core values, look at where you want to go, and pick if it is worth your time or not then stick to it! Be choosey and critical, life is too short and wasted so often.
Having clear drives means seeing yourself as sustainable and proud in that moment. Being happy and comfortable are products of worth, not the entire point. Relaxing or having fun can happen but without meaning and worth in that moment, it becomes masturabatory. Alway seek greatness and learn more. Enjoy your walk or change your walk and keep your end goal clear.
