What do you want out of life, how would it feel to have that, where can you get that stuff and do those things and how are you going to get that? People are not lazy but people are efficient. When we find enough comfort or a condition to label as comfortable due to it being not terrible and a manageable consistency, we keep doing that! Then we get lost in other bullshit instead of pushing on for better. This country is ample and lush with distractions. To find true happiness, one must create goals that reflect their values and pursue them. In the void of this decision and that construction, a person is bound to repetitive bullshit. So, here is a format for things to plan with some solid questions to expand upon.
Who do you want to be around? What influences do you want in your life?
what sort of culture do you want to be immersed in? And environment, like your house and then your town and area?
What do you value as a person and how can these be exercised? What drives you emotionally and where will this be backed up?
What do you want to change about the world or what are you excited about?
How do you want to feel? This is the answer which will be the tail that shakes the dog of the rest.
Who do you want to become and are you OK with changing that(because the world has more than you can ever know, so it’s gunna happen unless you’re a stubborn, pig-headed fool)?