Ranking yourself as great is a fucked avenue. Failure is assured because there will always be someone greater, the simple concept of competition unmasks this invalid culprit because statistics and the need of others to stand on means you can’t stand alone. Creating sensible paradigms that lead to greatness needs enjoyment at a constant to be factored present. Take the opposite action as a demonstration to why you should, hating yourself with flawed logical foundations cannot be the basis for anything good. Turn the critique on itself at all points so as to find it reliable. Without productivity as the end result then fuck what are you paying for? Simple answer is quite often we have seen ourselves a fool before thus we fund guilt in place of funding the good you investment. Guilt is invented to hold back slaves and regret is of nothing and then twisted. One should be no must be moving towards that which they find important and beneficial. There isn’t a what if or alternative to this because I’m not addressing idiocy or playing pretend with yourself staring as cancer. There since mistaken goals and flawed logical otherwise. One must surround themselves with ppl and figures they admire to create a true self. The move towards greatness is the only honest and progressive of moves. One is always living out the destiny they called acceptable that they wished for. As we put strong emotions into things do we pull our logical strings into weaving ways our most important desires can exist. This means nothing short of delusion, tragedy, disjunction or insanity for good or bad. The long short of accepting pain or jumping to dissolution is to fantasize about what you want and make the idea of planning details a luscious hobby as important as breathing. In order for greatness to be an actual reaction it must be acceptable, red the line following this piece. Speaking of yourself in the highest of ways is essential because we think in the phrases we speak with. Not declarative but directive, moving forwards always and with passion. Confidence is the knowledge that you can do something be cause you have thought something through and know it to be a factual next step for yourself. Cockiness is assuming without thinking that, don’t mix those fuckers up. Keeping passion alive and a sense of self respectable in tact is key. The ability to find fault in one self allows one to control a situation but the persistent search for such becomes a poison. Pointing out faults as facts and not explosions or damnation is a dance to find progress. The simple paradigm shift to know everyone is one your side and wants to grow rather than compete gives this move carte Blanche to make every bad meal into a dance floor. How you se yourself is a reflection of what you believe most strongly in and people respond around 90% to what you see yourself as. You can pull from heroes, loves, friends, and dreams as long as you keep that thinking things through detail close to your heart. Poise is a strange bird which does more for you then words and pay checks put together. How hold yourself affects how ppl view you and is scientifically proven to change your neurochemical output. Be more excited about failure than scared of success and create me confidence to match. Remember, this is not work because it is fun.