Volition control and management is important. The suggestion that will is as abstract and infinite as our imagination has been proved wrong by science. When you have to say no twelve times before lunch, your day is mildly fucked. The feeling of confidence, spot-on response and same team mindedness is impossible to keep after that sort of a breakfast activity. Having a reoccurring staple of dragging emotional anchor can do one only wrong and only happens when unclear version of the self is in proper seating.
Realizing patterns of damage is difficult because since they’re patterns they are repeating without effort or strife and since they’re damaging they’re either defensive or offensive and either way done because they make you feel right. Taking account of what you put emotional investment into during the day is a great means to figure your own end. Charting these and realizing what you’re ignoring allows one to see how and what they’re investing themselves into. Keeping your own emotions properly invested is not hard. Make a plan that fits how you want to invest your worth and effort. This is not difficult but it is new and new feels weird. Especially weird when its going against what you’re naturally doing. There is a simple trick.
Put pride and passion into what you want to bloom then remove bother and worth from that which bothers you to make it dissipate. That which brings reality from its idea sponge inside its face box and then spits it out into it jail yard Earth is something full of pride and belief. What you belief in more will be more real; that can be pain or pleasure. They’re both grass and you can water whichever one however you want to. This doesn’t mean just belief in it but that belief will carry the work through. The how and what are important yet the why is key. Why do you keep hurting in pain and why do you keep working towards success; because thats what you believe in and determination is everything.
Having a new goal of volition control is easy then accepting it is very difficult and new. Allowing yourself to define yourself with such a new awareness and success sounds easy. The biggest reason one cannot do this is usually because that feels wrong. Vision only works with belief then one must take the steps forward. Create a vision of yourself doing this then practice accepting that you do deserve and it is right to have this sort of volition control. We have been crunched by our culture, families, schools, and experiences through our lives. This is something new and allowing that viewpoint is the best advice I have and great advice at that.
