There are many way one learns to let themselves and their actions becomes lethargic and less than important. School and society streamlines learning and all things so that everyone gets a “fair” shake and we are reduced to working at the lowest common denominator’s speed. This causes self resentment, loss of enthusiasm, and over time a view of ones hard work and intensity as pointless, fruitless, and without meaning; as a culture we are making our greats, skills and ppl, slow down. There’s got to be a way around this.
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Taking baby steps versus taking all the necessary steps is a process broken by displaced brilliance. They are used to not needing the majority of steps and they resent the whole of people giving them orders because the orders are a waste of time. When new places that require normal amounts of work for brilliance come about, they still resent the workings and orders so they try to skip and end up looking fools. Yet they are so used to being surrounded by fools that they refuse to allow help even though they need it. Learning to take the simple steps and what ones are actually required is how one gets past this. When things are given and they’re too easy, complete and finish them as if they were so and to be done efficiently. Leaving them to the last minute or to be scrappily done permits for a waste of life and poor habits.
Creating meaning and worth in your actions means being able to see a future where you have self worth and are productive, then believing in it. This is fighting against projection of anxiety and the normal tendencies a person of these circumstances has grown accustomed. It may even mean letting go of resentment and rebellion to move forward, admitting your past ways were folly.
Making today important takes effort and work. Not toil or pain but action and thought. Invest in finding good things to pursue and think about. Remember that the will is finite and to keep up you must bolster yourself. The idea that others had it worse so must you is absolutely fucking stupid. See failings as learning. See everybody”no” as an accolade to your future victory, not a setback or sign of low worth or bad luck. To teach others address them from their perspectives, their place in things not yours. Ask for what you want and plan it out to the mindset, momentum, networking, and ignorances you have.
There is a grand difference in stating you’re great and aiming to be great. One is brave and the other toxic, conceited, sabotaging and insecure. Bolster those around you, compliments of genuine measure are gold. Poison are the bs ones. It’s important to keep in mind that we project, prime, and select our thoughts. In all of these must the key be remembered that our next step is always free.
Creating a sense of greatness and things your admire is actually just collecting a organizing thoughts. Everyone always has those. Putting them into values and a sense of self, believing and repeating that you deserve this is what it takes to make everyday count. Not blind entitlement and that is a factor all in this race must be weary of. Worth, self is always present no matter where you are, what you do, how much you make, what you wear, who you sleep with, what anyone thinks of you.Your sense of worth is timeless and unaffected by the outside. Always carry that highly. Make steps to fit it so. Greatness deserves a great plan and actions to fit.
Without having a feeling of being involved, one can’t matter nor can any real passion be sustained. Seeing yourself as loathsome isn’t unusual or bad but it must stop. Seeing someone as worthy and important means seeing them in your mind. This contemplation of their feelings and value is needed for the self. While being self-critical isn’t awful, seeing the self as a thing to be criticized shows lack of development of the self. Yet there are selves, others who one always finds worthy. Why not be them? The concept of a self is a series of values and beliefs followed and cemented into being by action. So take up those of ones you admire and be that. Let go of an old self and become the new one which you do believe in. This is key to making that plan work, this is key to meaning and worth, this is the first and revisited step in making your matter matter.
