The ironic root of most lashing out at the world and being angry at one’s self is that it comes from a desire, an expectation for better from the world. In fact, everyone is part of the world so all anger at the world is still just anger at themselves when seen in a larger scope. When anger is good is when anger is used as an outrage at misconduct and then channeled as a fuel to change that. To solve one’s own anger, lead by example. Only with stepping in virtue on one’s own can they lead the way. And people don’t like to be told what to do every, anyways, unless they’re asking in which case is rare and quite often in desperation. Again, everyone is a people which means that deal with your own problems and you are fixing a person; remember this when you have an urge to fix somebody.
If we give the world something wonderful, then we have improved things around here. To bitch and fight aimlessly shows a problem has been sighted but nothing is occurring to change that which malfunctions. Consider the perfection; if you met the girl/guy of your dreams, who would you want them to see? If the greatest adventure life could unfold upon you in the current knowledge of existence you have, plopped right on your face, who are you being and how would you roll with it? If you were given whatever circumstance constituted an amazing chance, could you ,right the fuck now, take it and run? That is the person you need to be, not want, motherfucking need. The imperativeness is not in requirement but in the unknown and beauty that can only unfold from you blooming. Putting time into you as the best and most prepared and centered, in only the way you can decide is right, is the noblest of great deeds to give to this world. Take it on a mass level; if everyone did this, what kind of a world would we have? Utopia is only a fucking word because even the idea is so distant from reality that the mind is presuming sixteen things it cannot feel since those things do not exist. Make me a liar?
The best advice to do this is moderation, acceptance, and planning. People who live in the moment do so because they are ready to receive good ones, which is what planning preps even if the moments coming aren’t the planned ones. Winging it constantly and living in the past makes the future mucky and cuts out any chance of having a strong sense of self or goals that inspire passion in a person. Planning is a must. Acceptance is a weird concept since it must be kept in balance with ego. Having a strong sense of self is the point of this whole thing so ego will come up. Pain and failure and worries will come up. Accepting them as our own and accepting others complaints and attacks as their own, is difficult; its easier to help others than it is to help ourselves without becoming self-inflated or self-deprecated. Look to complaints and failures as a leg up where you can become more, not an insult or attack because you are fluid as a person. Accept when you are wrong and you will grow the fastest of any strategy available since you are directly searching for the most prominent and mostly quickly improved areas of ignorance in your life. Lastly is moderation. Don’t critique yourself too much, don’t have sex too much, don’t eat too little, don’t party too much and everything else needs to find a balance or it will interfere with other fun things. The need to over-do something comes from a perceived lack in something, which is an unchanging version of self and an unreality of being. You have no lacks, you are whole right now and you need to accept that. Your goals are good enough to make you happy and fixing your wrongs of the past won’t fix them anywhere near the guilt and obsession around them wants you to believe. Move forward as to make yourself a best self that the world needs. To save the world, give them a hero by becoming one.
