Being happy and positive has productive results yet being pretentious and fake can too! The issue lays with truth and assessing what one wants rather than what has alway seemed the best. Bing genuine requires change and the open mind to grow. Being real and true to yourself also require this and is where true happiness comes from. Being critical in thought is ideal yet when the effectiveness of that high leaks past its point of worth, toxicity forms fairly instantly.
The notion to create something new is scary to the old and the simple minded. Keep in mind that children are alway thinking in new ways because they have nothing old to go off of. Children are almost always happy and the old and simple minded are not. This is fear compared to learning and the pureness of its excitement. Having the notion that one will create anything better or great is insulting to the old and scared while exciting and captivating to the young minded and passionate. It takes faith and is simple a direction to aim, not a claim not brag. Being genuine encompasses creating new as reality is always changing, so much ourselves and our understanding of the universe to stay true to it and ourselves. It’s not a language within or outside to be genuine but words and ideas we create.
There is not an always to return to but there is always a now to be in. The past sounds safe and mistakes make us precarious in trusting ourselves. Being true with your word is not always easy yet not being true is always detrimental and is easy. Fitting into others molds will create a feeling of acceptance and belonging. This feeling is literally blinders one has given themselves, validation control outsourced. No such meal is filling but sand that fills the mouth enough to stop complaints; merely a distraction. Give into your own self as a universe and your greatness of opinion and perspective; anything others have can only be there because you’ve given it to them.
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The kids in kindergarten who’s parents all said they were interesting, those were wronged and robbed children. Bullshitting anyone with the ambiguous compliment of interesting while lacking depth to explain further story and nail down such a fancy, what an ass-kissing and facade of emotion or worth. If you love something then get into it. There is no time but your time and a person can only do one thing at a time. Go deeper, create a continuance and flow that makes sense to a love, to that dance. Being real is closer to being obsessed than being presentable and a million times happier.
There is never just the observer. To know one exists is impossible without reflection and contrast. So to be genuine one must observe the world around. A balance of outside and inside exists or a pretense and lack exists. That void of stimulus for a humans natural emotions to enrich or destroy or whatever point in between. Study and understand that how you respond is up to you freely to make you; the next step is always free but one must know the ground around them before they can move.
Being real means being fully present and aware. Letting go of past wins and losses must occur before one can take in full grit and glee details of the now. Addiction to the past is real addiction nonetheless. Recognize that this moment is perfect because it is real and happening. There are always more options in your mind, future and past yet their greatest wish is to be what the now is, real and here. Take in a breath of that and examine where you have as the perfection that it is. Hate parts, critique pieces, it’s still awesome to be real.
