What do you want or what do you hate and is that’s opposite? One of the biggest problems in life is finding a purpose when the truth is, we create our purpose. Overcoming obstacles and hinderances is getting out of the water, once there we are free and in control. The trick is that the answer is a journey of development and cumulative tactics in itself. There is so much out there to do which is great! We find what we seek because human capacity is limited where the world’s is massive and the universe unlimited; the human cognition blends, funnels, dismisses and rationalizes thoughts until we are in front of a page that fits our comfortable perception, so choosing to believe there are great wonderful things to do out there is reprogramming a simple tool for good instead of boobytrapping ourselves with fear that runs rapid via media, advertising and defensiveness.
What is the world missing or would you like to find new in the world? Not a solution to an old problem nor a fix to a person’s issues. Outside of the low, what is the new high. Look to the sky or make it. Ask yourself freely without hesitation on money or current issues so to make a clear projection. What would you like to see in the world? Whats missing that should be here and now which would make you happy or be awesome and beautiful?
Who is the person who could find that? How do they feel about themselves, what vibe do they put off, what is their mind and emotionality like? What do they deserve? There are very simple questions to reverse engineer success and by working your own emotions around in your mind, you can figure them out. Once you have these emotions, tie them into a character like a new favorite person in a story.
Your persona is created now, inherited and malleable not solid. The Next step is to ask yourself, who are you? Are you really a reaction to old stimulus and genetics or cultural influences alone or are you afraid of admitting that you’re more? This is a call to arms to define that new self. You get to make this character a real thing, a full person just like any book or movie you’ve seen. And you get to start be them because you control your actions and thoughts. It is completely in your free will to decide to create thoughts and actions in this theme for this character you’ve made yourself.
Where are you really at? What are you afraid of, not accepting, limiting yourself to, defending or battling or escaping? How do you feel right now? Without an honest acceptance of current issues, real human limitations, there can be no jump to a new person. Admit flaws to overcome them, accept obsessions to relax and free yourself. It is OK to be hurt, beaten, scared, and feel like you owe people. But let go of that, you are only your conscious choice to be something. Nobody owns you or controls your thoughts or feelings but you.
How do you get from here to there? Once that path is seen and set, what does the person making that jump think about, allow to happen, seek to feel and react to change and challenges. If you’re hurt and scared then how do you become something wonderful and powerful? It is possible because you’re moving anyways. Just move towards the goal and away from the repetition. Each change takes thought and effort but is real and magical. You are in control of your actions, thoughts and emotions. Nobody but you, so you are free to change. Break all the patterns and grow beautiful in the wreckage.
What is the opposite of seeking failure and seeing failure in everything? It is seeking success and interpreting everything to lead to success or educating, it is being an opportunist and deciding how to maneuver thoughts and options to better move forward? Is it deciding to be happy in the face of loss and pain despite the social cues to stare at suffering, to feel fearful and weak? Is the very decision to get up and try something new the only real way to be great in a world of unfathomable possibilities? You can do live the life you want with yes.
