We are people are not just responses to the environment around us but patterns of our reactions as well as decisions in what we want to be. These can change. We can change and grow as conscious beings. Our human experience has answers we desire. How to create the best results means going somewhere deliberately.
The realm of worth and power from a stable being comes from their character, values, and behavior. Looking outside ourselves can give excitement, challenges, education, bliss, pain, and a ton of shit that won’t fill the driver’s seat. Staring at our insides is also fucking silly. While emotions and thought process can be important, core even, they are still not the movers. What we do, how we interact, between the outside and charged by the inside is what a person also needs for their answers. Redeveloping, overcoming, growth all come from this place powerfully.
Looking for happiness outside ourselves is incredibly stupid. The outside world is random. It can also be mean, cruel, blissful, erratic, and a hundred billion other things. Living based on outside happiness is dangerous at absolute best. To exist as a happy person one must be happy within themselves as well with who they are. Who means doing…
Deciding how you want to feel is key because it is freedom. To seek to create and conserve this is what character does though. Creating one’s core of emotion is a strong ideal of who they should be. Only in doing this, does it become real. Thought obsession and emotional focus aren’t terrible but to stay only there is stagnation. Once one understands the prognosis of their thought creation and emotional preferences for a self’s inventory, one then must move forward; one must act to make, test, and live.
How we feel about people and make people feel is an action. The place we decide to and do go to, is an action. The correspondence of these makes a full story of what a person is. How we react to struggle and strife is character. It is easy to say the feels and the place. What becomes a person is doing while there. The interaction, the engaging, the actualizing of emotions and places takes the middles link of a strong, real character. In deciding who you want to be, you decide what you would DO.
Take a script of an old story and rewrite it with yourself there. What would you do, and how would you feel when there? It is OK to copy your favorite characters but until one creates elsewhere, something new of their own volition in this same theme then it doesn’t goddamn count. So make new using your deliberate character. Writing your story means putting your character into action.
