What is success? And for that matter, what is worth being afraid of, what is right to be comfortable in, and what’s really safe? Asking, answering and navigating these questions are a must for the pursuit of success. It is very natural to find one’s self in the path of failure after experiencing dips and disasters for one begins to expect and project that sort of behavioral mindset and activity. In in no way required or helpful though. When all comes down to it, there is no real best. We have simply decided to a set standard of things being less or greater in their worth. Life is a subjective experience. Money can be gained in large amounts, popularity grow over exuberant amount of friends, power created through knowledge or fear and after all that shit is sold as best for it’s social hierarchical benefits, one still has to pick what they enjoy. So pick first and let those things of benefit and convenience be grading content instead of headings.
What does the world need more and how can you help that? In what way have you experienced bliss and seen meaning? Go chase those threads and where they flow strong, you will find self-worth. Who do you like being around and whom do you want to be? Are there people you admire, what and where did or are they heading? What excites you? In conversation, in activity, in reading, at a wall of magazines which one do you pick? What there do you want to do? What are skills you see as great and important? Go chase all that shit after you have thoroughly refined your answers.