Find a role model for each area. Choose someone, famous or not, who can serve as a guiding star for you, in your efforts to improve in each of our areas of health, career, and relationships. Perhaps for the relationship area, you might choose a well-known relationship coach or…
Read MoreThe Four Quadrants
I’ve been talking about how health, career, and relationships are important areas to pay attention to in life. I’m going to give a useful model to visualize these areas. First, what is there in the universe? What do we know exists? How might we make a simple breakdown…
Read MoreOvercoming the Negative Voices
As we work on improving our lives, we must be cautious about the negative voices that tell us we can’t do it. These voices can be external to us, coming from friends or family, or they could be internal voices, our internal doubts and fears plaguing us. These voices are insidious, and can sabotage our best efforts…
Read MoreVisualize Your Goals
Imagine the endpoint of your goals. Visualize it. Feel it, hear it, sense it with all your senses. Get it to the point where it is very real for you. If you want a good career, or degree, visualize it. If you want to be more fit, visualize yourself…
Read MoreSetting Goals
Now that we’ve identified our important areas to pay attention to, we need to set specific goals. They will, of course, be unique to you, but they should cover our three basic areas of interest. A broad outline: 1) A career that…
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