When a person is freaking out and others try to help them, it does no good to address the stupid emotions running afoot if one does not address the person inside that emotional burning building. Appealing and looking only at their anger or fear will grow that where as connecting to the person underneath will make them feel whole and again able…

Sometimes failures happen. People die, tests destroy us, cars get crashed and things generally have the option to blow up and the fuse does hit the gas once in a while. But that doesn’t mean stop or that we are bad but that there is a different way to look at what’s going on and a new way to find success and we have learned one way it clearly doesn’t…

When we aren’t doing anything, fear is running us more than we realize. Confrontation and creation is the trick of a new and thriving life. To not address this issue is to acquiesce to a reign of fear…

When we jump to something, rush away to some deep fearful need to accomplish something and be productive it spins a wheel of time sending one away from whats best and into whats easiest, quickest, and at best familiar. In order to grow, one must go for and ask for more…

When you treat someone like a person, you do not stare at one thing they have done wrong or that has happened to them. Same can be said of someone who is “defected” or “damaged” and to do so is more damaging to them than anything else because it cuts off their options of who they expand and grow to be…