Saying no can be the most powerful thing but it goes farther than the delicious jelly donut or crazy boy/girl asking for a date. Saying no takes place without ourselves in our emotional state and life-scope. To say no is to make yourself bigger than a twitch to agree and create a story where your character is dynamic…

Giving up authority in one’s mind is a strange game of pride. To learn more, we must shut up and listen then think. Blindly following orders and looking for a guide is best way to find disgust and ease in one’s self. As soon as we give up our own authority, life becomes much easier. And we become fools or slaves…

Everybody dies but not everybody really falls in love. We can kiss, screw, marry, procreate, have high levels of oxytocin and go on magnificent adventures but until we start to be ourselves in each waking moment, we cannot truly love someone. Because without really being ourselves, WE aren’t really in love. Standing out, alone complex and shimmering is freedom and that single absurdist decision to get stranded and walk real is where someone must see you to love you…

Here is a fun exercise about transforming the current moment into the perfect moment. Imagine the perfect life with the perfect you. It does not include all candy and rainbows but includes work however you enjoy the work because you like yourself and you find a way to enjoy what you are doing. The world brings to you in all aspects of life but you always bring yourself. So the exercise goes imagine a cloud you are on. Imagine it around you...

Every person has an inherent feel about them. It can be seen in body language, action, diction, all sorts of things but it can be noticed and felt all the same without any of those things. We can imagine a hero of our own creation doing all the greatest things we would love and that person has an inherent loving or excitement or charisma about them. The sexy pose, clever lines, amazing car chase, brilliant manifesto aside there is that...

Allowing someone to be influential in your life is a gift to them (as well as you–but more so them). Being influential gives a person a sense of value and purpose in their life.