Being too stuck on who you’re supposed to be can ruin you actually living your real life or worse, bullshitting and retelling or re-intrepretting your story to fit how you want the tale to go and not actually being involved in the story itself…

Love in question with what standards one has where considered that people must change, so does our love change? Or are we loving everything so that love is free ranged and uniform?

Living aimlessly is not fun where as winging it can be; to have no goal or standard is a silly and lifeless direction to pursue. One must consider the perfection or one is running aimless with their life and critiquing without any real standard to refer to…

To be the same constantly is what makes a reliable and strong personality. And if never changing worked, then the world would be boring and nothing like it really is. People get to and need to change their emotional values but what does that say for being believable and consistent a person?

Most people are emotional. Decisions for how and what emotions deserve what situation come out of habit and stirring situation more often than focused critique and precise analysis. For this purpose, I suggest a diagnoses for what emotional habituates were the cause of one’s current values then deciding if they make sense; as one now stands…

having high expectations leads to being guilt-prone and depressed. Take into consideration that the guilt one feels is unnecessary and unrealistic, then examine why it exists. Having high standards and tastes is good but the road to perfect takes time and single steps…