An archetype, generalization, a stereotype is a set pathway in the brain that we can easily assign to people so less thought is needed. It is a mental shortcut and cuts off many options for what is new when people think in them instead of thinking in whats real and in front of us. THEY’RE NOT BAD ONES! We meet someone and see a cross on their neck, nice clothes, a shitty car, dirty face and big headphones and the mind immediately has...

“Small talk will be the death of us all and all that is higher thinking” an old best friend of mine used to say. A convesation takes motions to move the way each speaker wants to push themselves, its a fight or a cuddle session but the tempest is always moving in a direction. The small words or ten dollar phrases are less important than this flow. As a culture we try and sell ourselves with the right words but a more elementary...

It is quite normal and quite simple to lose the person one wants to be. Society rarely pushes us to be our best in the very particular way we would wish and design upon ourselves. That is the inner battle we must keep at balance with the world; dance as hard as they do but keep your own beat. We fall into roles because we naturally want acceptance but we lose ourselves because that is not dream dance.  we must never forget to love...

The emotional patterns in our life define our lives; that is they limits and expand them. We are taught these patterns by the way our mother treats us, our father and how our father treats our mother and us. We are taught this by the traumas in our lives and the roles we played in them.  We are taught these roles by the hierarchy system of our siblings kept with us. Dive into each of these and unarguable patterns of behavior emerge. Create...

Many loves are obsessions, many needs are wants drawn out, many desires are orders dressed up as cures to a disease nobody has. The trick of want is to make sure the end scenario is never examined and that the exact ground is always unsure. Colorful language, pretty dresses and nice suits, leading glances, and amorphous beautiful fantasies all welcome an unknown end so it can fly on winds of wonder. But what we want, much like what we...

Im convinced society as a whole is ingrained with the elementary belief that we aren’t good enough and must improve, struggle repent, obey; our rules are there to safe us from our own self-perceived stupidity because we can’t function on our own; being generally happy with who you are and seeking pleasure is demonized, punishable, and seen as impeding upon others. I belief in anarchy for this system.