It is common for folks to judge themselves off the most angry or hurt people they meet. But what does this do? Where does this aim you? Is this worth changing your own state to their pain? Recognizing and respecting it sure, maybe sympathizing but not compromising and standardized yourself to so, fuck fuck fucking no. Compromising one’s self to so is toxic. No, but it is normal and it is a choice we have.
Training to look at the greatest opinions of your does not mean living a King on your kingdom of dirt surrounded by sycophants. Letting bastards judgments hinder you will pave the road of a beast and fuck up your feet, for starters. Preserving and growing to something great takes all the help and boosts the race has. Lose the mindset of needing to even the odds with the hurt or feel from those who would attack you. Those words are your enemies. A splendid life takes getting every plus and accolade possible. Each time you allow yourself to be hurt and look poorly at yourself, which is difficult from being critical, you slow your roll. The greats dodge that shit and you can too.
There are lovers, friends, coaches, allies, and monkeys alike who would instantly tell you how great you are if you just asked. This is not a foreign fact to you either. Keeping their words in mind or keeping haters in mind is a choice all humans always have. Holding an image of who you are is what persists your actions and thoughts more so than just about anything else ever. We behave based on how we think and feel, that behavior stems from what we expect from the future, from others and ourselves. Letting that version of ourselves be the best allows us a better path. And think of the people who love us, let them be more right than those who would hurt us.
