So easy is it to be superficial and walk the walk without having rhythm that fits it. This is because you aren’t into that beat. Often the simple strategy of walking until the music starts to fit and you fall into the lines can be successful… but when one finds themselves talking about the achievement more than wanting to do the achievement or focused intently on it, they have created bullshit city and hell be damned does the mayor hat fit. One must either find the parts of the dance they love and get into it or find a new dance. As much as telling people and being social about a thing can improve one’s mood it soothes no soul.
We are easily amused creatures. Being social is a secondary echelon to our happiness. Enjoying ourselves is first and elementary because we must give a happy self in a social circle, not beg for others to help us convince ourselves that we are happy. So many dances and stories are woven to get this social approval and yet it will always turn to sand once chewed. It will fill you up but it can’t get you that fix you’re itching for.
Being true to one’s self is that most natural thing a person can do. Its fucking simple, start being childish and watch yourself. Then use those steps to evaluate what pleases you, what makes you tick. In such a loud social climate as the one we live in, its normal to get washed away in platitudes and generalizations of what is moral and what one wants. But its very unnatural. We must answer to the self absolutely first and create our own questions for the world to answer and unfold into the lives we want to live. This is the issues of getting over being too social or being normal in a screamingly loud social world.
Stop getting swept away and honor your own thoughts.