Self loathing is hate directed at the self. Resentment is hating others in response to hating ones past. When hate is beneficial is when it changes and frees one from hurt or restriction. It’s powerful and many get lost in it. Hatred and insecurity have a duality relationship. As they conserve each other no solutions are found. The root of hatred is ill-aimed focus then destruction rather than appreciation or innovation. The act of loving the fear producing anger and then embracing, cultivating inspiration is the death of hatred which hatred desires most deeply. As one overdrives hatred do they destroy themselves instead of the hate. The goal is missed in the rush.
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To create a powerful self out from the hatred is a logical and decisive path. The idea behind hatred of most ideal pragmatism is the seeking of stability. One must ask themselves is this alright and answer no in order to activate the formula for anger; usually it happens habitually or subconsciously. So treat anger as a flag. Examine the self and situation when it arises so to clearly control ones path rather than get more lost in primitive highs of tantrum. What is bothering a person is best illuminated, and the cure aimed, when followed by "why aren't I be happy" and "why don't I think I'm being awesome"? The answers should be nil or made into nil.
As anger flows in odd ways through development, festering, and trauma, finding a solution to it often must be done while working with it; much like a productive means to fixing an evil empire, working with the in place functions is far more fluid and less destructive than fighting everything standing. Rebellion is the belief that one is being oppressed. A state of oppression occurs in the mind and heart as well as anywhere else; a person must focus and believe in their oppression. To fight and rebel against THIS sense is the key. It's very much like turning the judgment against itself and finding the void existing to any standard screaming orders. Loving oneself is the end path of hating hate as it realizes its own aims have gone lost and it's beating itself up in place of them.
Guilt and resentment are casual disasters, hate undercover and recognized as friends or white noise; the most dangerous of all. This is where hate has become expected and treated as normal and recognizing it plays the game of doubt, subjectivity, and alien/mass application. Again, examine the goals of these things; to make better and yet their main role in life is to restrict and sabotage. Their standfast is the "worth" of critique which is fueled by the fear of low worth, another level of judgment and now unrelated angle of past story's pain and loss. Pain is part of life, eat it; do not run from it for it is knowledge. Letting go of these is easy but systematic in functionality's resurrection. First attack and discredit the critique and fear. Then notice the pain caused by the guilt and resentment is overwhelming. It's goal is beaten by its "side effects" or its nature. Finally the strength of the emotion compels motion. This is healthy, a passion to be good and happy. This change must not give one into excess but be channeled into happiness and understanding. As it becomes productive does its lust become satisfied.
To notice the world judging you, failures behind and in front of you, problems springing up is to acknowledge what causes fear. Hate is always a secondary emotion. The more keen and honest about their own fears, the more free one is to let go of fear and not create hate. As one becomes more aware of their feelings does one start to see the pattern of their creativity. In this understanding does unraveling anger create seeking and creating happiness. To understand hate is to want to create happiness.
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The habitual misuse of emotion is a plague on this planet, a self-deprecative end of ways creating an end of days. The shift from fear and anger which can occur fluidly is a simple monitoring of ones thoughts. One creates better thoughts at each step of survival, success and beauty. As we hate, we label parts of the world wrong and attach hate to our perception. This modifies what we create, find and seek. Fear is seeking hurt because it is worried about not being hurt again; the brain doesn’t know negatives only topics. As we create good does pain and loss disappear. Staring at the void to avoid the void doesn’t work. As each thought becomes more positive the identification process shows deeper thoughts and layers of paradigm and understanding unravel. So as more control is exerted is more proper use exhaled. Remember this process is always on going whether or not it’s deliberate or good is a choice though. Guilt becomes ironic like all other hates. Make good thoughts, let go of the past to hold onto the future and provide the cure fear desires so desperately. In comfort and earnest is a heaven reclaimed from a self-built hell.
The practice of leaving hell is the process of creating heaven. Acceptance and awareness followed by seeking happiness for ones self and the world around them. A balance with glee is proper, excitement and passion to know and explore.
