A shitty life can build a strong character or destroy a great one who succumbs to the strive. Where is this change? At what pivotal step did they drop the ball and accept the insults, take on the guilt, decide they deserved less and allowed themselves to become beaten instead of tenderized.
Vehicular immobilization requires roadside assistance. The body and brain are vehicles of the mind IE your thoughts and will. This occurs when a mobile mind become stagnant. This occurs because one is stuck on a thought, an emotion, an action or perhaps the reaction to such. The overview is that one becomes stuck in a mental place or they become in denial about where they are and then the mind fails to continue a realistic flow with reality. Its like playing the same scene of one character but turning the page. Romeo can’t keep saying pretty things to Juliet, he’s got to die and fight and all that stupid Romeo stuff. Its obtrusive to a real story. One moment, no matter how incredibly bad, good, sexy, delicious, or any other adjective is bigger than the whole picture. The beat goes on. When is stuck in a certain moment emotionally or in their state of mind, it detracts from the ability to comprehend and react literally but always with a jaded view. The diamond in this rough is that one simply has a lesson they have not learned. A perspective not yet acquired. You are never damaged, only gifted with new outlook; the opportunist would say. Perhaps you lost your legs though, that is definitely a loss if arguable not completely in perspective but at least in the physical. And that’s true. You can get cancer, raped, lose your true love, watch your child die in front of you by the mouths of risen angry presidents all hungry for blood by spell of Cthulu and Micky Mouse’s love child’s vile wizardry. But then the song changes. The point is that there is more after that and you are never fucking stuck in that moment unless you deny your reaction, the situation, or refuse to fully leave that state of mind. It can take time, for sure. Some lessons are hard to learn and cope with emotionally. But we are always able and the mind is constantly moving forward. If in denial there are clear signs.
We become condescending, meaninglessly confrontational, anxious and overly non confrontational, entitled, victimizing, arrogant, insensitive, fiendish, dismissive, elitist because we generalize those not in our place as less when we are misreading a real interpretation of the moment by others as less because we cannot get over our inability to leave a past moment and we’re not happy about about it. Check that wording again, happy is derived from happenstance. The current happening and being aware, totally in it. That is actually a natural state to be. Every moment is new and others are allowed to deal with their own conduct of life accordingly. We are not in charge of anyone else neither are they to us so we cannot force or be rude to others for their place. That’s just stupid fueling that other than the negative things I have listed which are all based out of fallacy and the inability to cope with one’s own experiences.
So be true to yourself and let the pain bear its mark or gratuity bring blood rushing to your cheeks. But do move on, there’s a day right now that needs an honest eye with agile feet and ample heart to bring on the adventures fit to blow up
