Its morning, you’re going to work. Breathings heavy, hair is a mess and you’re leaning too far forward, feeling uncomfortably hot and stiff in mystery areas that you can’t stretch. You know that you’re bothered and the brain starts jumping at things; bills, romantic crap, need better car, should go to the gym, should be this, should do that, should blah fuck blahdeedblahh. This is aimless critique and it should be critiqued first before you chop yourself off…

To create happiness only for specific standards or situations is seen by many as belittling the worth of your happiness. This is a flawed argument. It may be sought after more and highly appreciated but the reasons and delivery of your happiness far outweigh the amount. It is a wonderful thing to be abundant in, not condescension which is what one creates when pretending they are too good for something…

Give people a chance to be now, because now is more real than the expectation you have of them in the past. The human brain is lazy and makes labels, social shortcuts to save us time thinking but it makes a plastic person. People are not plastic.

The fallacy of keep looking is alive and well in this ADHD persuaded society we run. Its not good for meaning and its worse for happiness as we jump from topic to topic instead of giving any one great thing time to show its colors we have already stepped to the next.

There is a common cold war people have with their own happiness where they don’t actively allow themselves to seek it. A concept of hard work, guilt, deserved is seen depraving a good person of their own glee when trying to make sense of a painful world. But we only hurt ourselves and progress the pain of that world by getting in the way of our own love…