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Ask for more.

Ask for more.

This is a world of so many options and freedoms. We live in a tiny spec of the possibilities for our lives. Yet the people who are tiny are not there because the world is out to get them but because they feel so and ask for not enough. Really, ask for more and let it come instead of fighting the lack…

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Mind over Brain

Mind over Brain

We are not controlled by emotions even if they make things feel true, right, evil, bad, magical, or what have you. Emotions are part of our brain, they are chemicals, they which flow, but they are not made of reason nor ever in charge until the mind makes or lets them take hold…

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Hidden expectations

Hidden expectations

Relationships are always messy. They spill over into everything… love is complicated and so is sex and so is love without sex. And then we get to learn how we feel and react in one when we had nothing planned, yet we were already prepared to get mad over stupid shit or really excited and used without any forethought. This is why a mature person looks into themselves and finds their expectation then makes adult decisions on what to do with them….

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You are, you being

You are, you being

We become defined to ourselves differently than the definitions those around us would give us. The easiest way to realize immediacy and accuracy is give credence to the immediate. In relationships and jobs, things are expected of you. While the big picture is important…

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Make something to get excited about

Make something to get excited about

Our imagination is limitless and so easily do we fall into despair all the same. There is always a cheering thought, a hero in the real of ideas or a heroin. Being excited, passionate, and directed towards it allows us to build on top of the shit we see and win, and grow and be who we were meant to be. Or at least make up someone who want to be…

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