We exist and discuss in most often a predeceasing state. “How are you”, usually means how were you or what has your past treated you like. We discuss events of the past more then we discuss at hand, present situations or else we hypothesize about future ones. The way we respond is with our character in full premise so then I must question not who one is but who one wants to become. This may be my own addiction to pragmatism or...

To create a new standard for success is not an unwieldy or arrogant move for a person but it can result in the deterrence of many social interactions. To push to be something different is not bad yet it guarantees social dissonance from people reacting to what they know and see instead of what that individual aims for; they can both be hindering to the desired progress. It is no selfish but it is definitely a larger need pond of...

It is ironic and quite funny how strong many people state and act like their faith is. But they do not use their faith, test their faith, or put their faith to action anywhere near a hard grading stone. People rather just boast about their faith. From hippies with zen-acid’d out flow in the world to upstanding christians there is a tremendous lack of action compared to the extremely large sum of stated worth for faith. They would...

Humans have this natural ability to believe things into existence. It can start as a self-fulfilling prophecy or we can take the dirt in front of us and see what can be built. There are many functions to this end but we have a way to allow ourselves to fall in love and to hate viciously. So I say, decide to fall in love with work, with reading, with strife, with dealing with awkwardness, with shitty things that get us great places. It...

Humans want so badly to socialize, to be accepted, needed, important, achieved, actualized, respect, understood, to grow and make something valid. And for whatever fucking reason it is done most often and simply by attacking others who are not in your circle. Tis a fallacy such that vile and flaws reek but whats more is that a culture comes to be built around competition instead of empathy and understanding. Friends are so often fueled by...