Having big plans is a funny idea that will never bloom lest it has set actions for all the change and explosions normal life holds. Going to college, getting a steady job, falling in love with the kids and stuff then the whole happily ever after tale is a huge farce and everyone who isn’t selling you something will agree. Life starts as soon as your plans start falling apart because of outside interference. To restrict ourselves from...

An archetype, generalization, a stereotype is a set pathway in the brain that we can easily assign to people so less thought is needed. It is a mental shortcut and cuts off many options for what is new when people think in them instead of thinking in whats real and in front of us. THEY’RE NOT BAD ONES! We meet someone and see a cross on their neck, nice clothes, a shitty car, dirty face and big headphones and the mind immediately has...

“Small talk will be the death of us all and all that is higher thinking” an old best friend of mine used to say. A convesation takes motions to move the way each speaker wants to push themselves, its a fight or a cuddle session but the tempest is always moving in a direction. The small words or ten dollar phrases are less important than this flow. As a culture we try and sell ourselves with the right words but a more elementary...

It is quite normal and quite simple to lose the person one wants to be. Society rarely pushes us to be our best in the very particular way we would wish and design upon ourselves. That is the inner battle we must keep at balance with the world; dance as hard as they do but keep your own beat. We fall into roles because we naturally want acceptance but we lose ourselves because that is not dream dance.  we must never forget to love...

The emotional patterns in our life define our lives; that is they limits and expand them. We are taught these patterns by the way our mother treats us, our father and how our father treats our mother and us. We are taught this by the traumas in our lives and the roles we played in them.  We are taught these roles by the hierarchy system of our siblings kept with us. Dive into each of these and unarguable patterns of behavior emerge. Create...