The third person perspective is brilliant to knowing yourself and enjoying life when it gets horrible. It allows you to see things more clearly while also being able to enjoy horrible things on their more charming merits than their immediate threat of you getting chopped to bits by homicidal maniacs wearing Santa attire…

Saying no can be the most powerful thing but it goes farther than the delicious jelly donut or crazy boy/girl asking for a date. Saying no takes place without ourselves in our emotional state and life-scope. To say no is to make yourself bigger than a twitch to agree and create a story where your character is dynamic…

Giving up authority in one’s mind is a strange game of pride. To learn more, we must shut up and listen then think. Blindly following orders and looking for a guide is best way to find disgust and ease in one’s self. As soon as we give up our own authority, life becomes much easier. And we become fools or slaves…

Everybody dies but not everybody really falls in love. We can kiss, screw, marry, procreate, have high levels of oxytocin and go on magnificent adventures but until we start to be ourselves in each waking moment, we cannot truly love someone. Because without really being ourselves, WE aren’t really in love. Standing out, alone complex and shimmering is freedom and that single absurdist decision to get stranded and walk real is where someone must see you to love you…

What we ask ourselves is what creates our mental grounds for the coming situation. If we wonder how big a jerk someone is going to be or what is going to be like to meet someone amazing, we have entered totally different realities. Our brains generate chemicals based on that and our mind follows a train of thought in the direction we point it. We are in control of that…

Humans have a pons, a reptilian brain, and a mammalian brain. We freakout because we have evolved to be safer when we do that and don’t like, die. But nowadays we don’t die so readily but we still freak out? Prepping and understanding that freakout is essential to being more than a beast of burden to everybody including ourselves…