Give people a chance to be now, because now is more real than the expectation you have of them in the past. The human brain is lazy and makes labels, social shortcuts to save us time thinking but it makes a plastic person. People are not plastic.

The fallacy of keep looking is alive and well in this ADHD persuaded society we run. Its not good for meaning and its worse for happiness as we jump from topic to topic instead of giving any one great thing time to show its colors we have already stepped to the next.

There is a common cold war people have with their own happiness where they don’t actively allow themselves to seek it. A concept of hard work, guilt, deserved is seen depraving a good person of their own glee when trying to make sense of a painful world. But we only hurt ourselves and progress the pain of that world by getting in the way of our own love…

The world one wants is never too far away unless we are unwilling to believe in it. We believe in ourselves, even if we believe we are shitcake rotting on a crap salad torture show. Ideas lead us into being the same way signs let us know there is a turn coming up. We just need to make up the turn we want and let ourselves look for the sign…

We all know we have problems but how do we confront them? The very simple decision to want to, is the most important step because its opening the door…

Human beings are beasts of decisions. We decide to pursue happiness and this makes us happy, we decide we deserve certain things but then get mad when those things make us unhappy. If we don’t make a decision about who we are, what we want, we’re giving up our ability to create. And the world will shuffle us somewhere. Do not do that…