It is quite normal and quite simple to lose the person one wants to be. Society rarely pushes us to be our best in the very particular way we would wish and design upon ourselves. That is the inner battle we must keep at balance with the world; dance as hard as they do but keep your own beat. We fall into roles because we naturally want acceptance but we lose ourselves because that is not dream dance. we must never forget to love ourselves and this is our life, no one else’s. Without our own goals and dynamics in mind, we are living someone else’s life. That is the biggest sin one can commit on this plane.
So find what burns inside you! Create a fantasy, lust and love and want long enough to spark the imagination. Stare at what scares and terrifies you and name its antithesis; figure its opposite and set a path. Remember and brainstorm your heroes then look at their ways and travels. Live life like that.
