What we look towards is our choice. There are a million different outcomes. Which one we look at creates our emotional material our hearts and minds work with as well as the anemia our mind’s have to shape out thoughts. Any horrible situation always has the chances of being an amazing feat because one could pull off some amazing trick. The same as a normal activity could have a horrific fuck up and destroy a person’s life beyond recognition, a pit of despair and misery agonizing longer than one mind can bare to imagine. This is not simple pessimism or optimism but crafting our look at the future. As being mindful in the present is the highest of goals one can mentally achieve this process seems counterintuitive. All the same a grand goal can propel us through some intense drudgery and bullshit where as a horrendous end can make every little moment before seem like an eternal paradise. Those dynamics make it worthwhile to examine and a fabulous tool to put to our own use.
Expectations are very lecherous as well as the most common of projections. By laziness and hindsight, they are top notch which is why so often do they make the favored word choice from being the favored action. When a person expects something they have set a stage with a requirement. A person must jump a certain amount in order to be good enough. Having standards like this can create a pull towards being a higher being, unfortunately the person will be answering to rules and things outside of themselves instead of the steady and whimsical flow of real life or their own immediate will. The more stuck to a plan a person behaves the less free they are to change freely in a moment of surprise. This is great is the end cause is one’s highest purpose and fortunately for all the idiots out there, we will never know our highest purpose. Life is always changing and teaching us new things. Once a highest goal is achieved, then new sights are seen, understandings grasped and from those perspectives a new person is formed. Expectations can be great in short bursts and through known, sure troubled times. But expectations are inherently flawed with the guaranteed change of life and inevitable growth of a person.
Anticipations are the higher ground to expectations. To show anticipation is to show excitement rather then showing expectation is showing judgment and lack to fill. People love anticipation for there is no loss involved, only gain. Turning expectations into anticipations creates a maker out of a worrier. It is finding the passion that drives us towards a goal and feeding the want. Being anticipatory shows everyone around excitement and eagerness. Being worried, desperate, stressed out shows expectation. Anticipation is somewhat passive. Though an active emotion, it includes little action other than expression. It is the nonverbal behavior which begets what we strongly yearn for. The world, people, respond much more positively and less constrained to anticipation than to expectation.
We find what we seek because we seek it, not that other options don’t exist but focusing on one thing creates a mental environment where only that particular result is of concern so the other occurrences are not valued or counted. Then we stick to what we want as our mental gravity and bring the elements of every situation towards pushing us towards our goal. This is the actionary stage of anticipating and expecting. It is the more pure as it doesn’t have space for disappointment and is malleable for it must be made to exist and it must exist or one is doing nothing. There is both absolute freedom and complete stress in that one must do this and that one can do whatever they want. As you seek what you want you are creating the universe in front of you. Your behavior speaks to those around you and the setting unfolding in non-verbal behavior, how your interests and grade of passions are being advertised and read, the world you set up in front of you is relative in the realm of ideas to what your behavior has in coalition with your thoughts. Seeking is always extremely malleable and the active form of predicting the future.
There must be cultivation, patience and space. To trust what you want is coming and working is not laziness for it is the lack of disparity. Faith in your good idea is not cockiness but in fact the denial and defeating of doubt, think about that.
