So sexy in just being.

One of the sexiest, most attractive and wonderful themes a person can have is one of complete truth. Being in touch and comfortable with reality rather than trying to bullshit, fight, lie, trick, or escape it. Fully admitting to one’s flaws demonstrates vulnerability without any recourse of damage as the admitted is comfortable with it. When disaster strikes, one is completely honest and accepting of the possible outcomes, good or bad, and reliably looks at the situation logically. Selling something bigger and better is attractive but insubstantial. Its far and away instead of now, current, tangible and accessible. Those kinds of attractions are for escapist and the fearful, which is a role anyone can play. Being happy is being in the happening, which is just being. Only in the last few hundred years has that word changed culturally to be an “obtained” state. Its natural to be happy and unnatural to be in denial or lying. Accepting what is going on and being honest about it is a very sexy thing.