https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4u5cIOzJMLQ
Because crazy things happen, statistics and probability are out the window. People normally use this logic to scare themselves out of doing epic things and of being afraid of terrible things. For those who have already taken this intense stress, the attachment to likelihood is out the window. Normally this results in a beaten and down state of low confidence, and that emotional wave is unavoidable. How one rides it is malleable.
When one has been struck by lightning, they have become the ridiculous. Now things which others find impossible is a sense they’re akin to. It is the light to the shadow of tragedy. As one finds one side of a wave they also know the amplitude in the other, it’s the simple question to the self of ,”what’s the oppose of this?”. From this perspective, the incredibly damaged or attacked become the enlightened and incredibly able.
It takes a great deal of focus and emotional understanding to make this jump. One must come to see that their emotions are within their control and theirs alone. Our decisions form our lives not accidents even though we have endured great accidents before. From the decision to try this one must face their fear of repeated tragedy and thus one must all the same lest they live stagnant and afraid. So dealing with this intense pain also takes the same momentum and pace to stride into the epic. Since one already must accept ridiculous to heal, why not decide ridiculous to bloom as well?
