We exist and discuss in most often a predeceasing state. “How are you”, usually means how were you or what has your past treated you like. We discuss events of the past more then we discuss at hand, present situations or else we hypothesize about future ones. The way we respond is with our character in full premise so then I must question not who one is but who one wants to become. This may be my own addiction to pragmatism or pragmatic language, more importantly its does ask something that is malleable and in constant wonder rather than such that is static. Every next decision we make is not entirely our past’s creation but in our control to make a better tomorrow. OK, maybe just a different tomorrow. We can always change and build towards that which we desire. So if a fight begins of the weather that you are sick of, sail it with a ship aimed at new ideas instead of old standards. This means clashing with normal emotions and being present.
Keep in mind that the next step is not a stomp in the same old mud if the heading is higher ground than the normal walk.
