It is detrimental to existing if one cannot express themselves to the world around them and maddening if they cannot express what they feel, see, hear to themselves. As people, we imitate those in front of us. Out beliefs, patterns of speech, word choice, accent, posture, all seen and fall to our own without much realization. Its a normal thing but its not a required thing and our nature about these lessons can change how we act.
Many a soul speak so much that they lose their meanings in the sea of words which a new sentence cannot be seen nor heard in because it will surely be followed by a tempest. Fewer speak fewer words and those tiny fragments come to mean much much more but only for both when tone and delivery is used keenly. In talking to one’s self we have our own perspective and expectation even if we are unaware of its design.
For a voice to be precise and anything other than what it needs to be, the speaker must be clear to the speaker alone as to why they speak. Rambling gets across nothing and one cannot be heard underwater. Words fall sunder to many a foe and temperaments so words must be dancers of sorts.
Realize the tone of the person you want to be. Let it come from your belly and through your whole being. Keep it pronounced and annunciated each syllable. It sets the mood and your mood sets the tone, in your head and in the room seating your words.
Keep perspective aware. To speak with a means of reaching another or in help one when your perspective is that you cannot win or the world is against you, that will come across. The place one speaks from reverberates out of their lips.
Look at the goal. So often a person who is trouble has expectations hindering them from speaking clearly. If you wish to make a the world into a tea bag, well that’s a pretty difficult sentence to construct. Your opinion of yourself bends creation of true expression.
Look at your own self talk, hear your words in your head and compare them to the world around you. We fall so easily into autopilot and speak like those before us. It is lazy and it is normal to use other’s words and then have their ideas be just repeated jests. Make your own words, its easy if you let it be fun.
